“I don’t want to go to school! I.Dont.Want.To!”
This wasn’t a cry I hadn’t heard before from this child. In fact, it’s often uttered daily. He doesn’t want to get dressed. He mumbles and grumbles many days all the way through the morning routine.
But this cry was different.
It was a gut-wrenching cry that woke this little one from sleep.
“I can’t make it! I can’t do it all day. I can’t!”
And why couldn’t he? Because his friend on the bus was mean; and Tuesday’s and Wednesday’s were the only days he didn’t play alone at recess.
Daily I am the one folks come to for answers to these type of school woes. But today? I had nothing.
Nothing to calm his anxious spirit. Nothing to convince him to go to school. No solution for the loneliness he felt on that playground.
Sure. I could provide the reassurance that God was most certainly with him at recess, but he knew this already. And while it is nice to know that God sits with us, it is also no secret that a 10 year old, 5th grade boy also desires that someone else will sit with him in his lonely places. To invite him to play. To help him not feel left out or different. Especially when he can’t play basketball or football.
All my little guy wanted was someone to play tag with him. To understand that his clumsy, little legs…they just couldn’t do sports.
And it’s what I wanted for him, too.
Today? If your heart is breaking for your lonely child? It’s what I want for you and yours, also.
Today, I pray that God is not only with your lonely and hurting child, but that He sends someone.
He sends someone who sees their own brother or sister sitting alone, and invites them to be their “friend” for the day (Proverbs 18:24). That someone will go outside their circle, show hospitality, and make yours feel like an “insider” (Hebrews 13).
Ask a lonely soul to play.
Tell them, “It’s ok. I’ll teach you.”
Or drop the football, and simply stop to play tag.
I pray your little one is sent a friend to the lonely.